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Can a child go to kindergarten a year later? Whether a child is suitable for kindergarten mainly depends on these 3 aspects Since Huihui gave birth to a child, her parents-in-law came from the countryside to help the young couple take care of the child. Huihui, who is so busy with work and has no time to take care of her family, is very grateful for the help of her in-laws. The parents-in-law are both simple and industrious rural people. When it comes to taking care of the child, the old couple do their best, and they are even more caring and loving towards the child. Seeing that her child is at an age where she can go to nursery school, Huihui is planning to choose a suitable kindergarten for her child. She originally thought that her parents-in-law had worked hard to bring the child for more than two years, and that she could take advantage of the opportunity of the child to take a good rest. Unexpectedly, the parents-in-law were opposed to the child's going to nursery school. They believed that the child would be sent to kindergarten at least a year later, when the child was over 4 years old. The objection of the parents-in-law made Huihui very embarrassed. The parents-in-law thought that the child was only 3 years old, and he couldn't speak clearly, and he was still wearing diapers. It was really unbearable to let the child go to school at such a young age. One year at night, when the child is over 4 years old, it is not too late to send the child to kindergarten. Huihui, on the other hand, believes that the children of her colleagues go to school at this age. After entering kindergarten, the children's expression ability and self-care ability have improved rapidly. Huihui believes that her child is always at home, has a very narrow social circle, and has yet to learn anything. It is time for him to go to kindergarten to exercise. The elderly believe that children do not need to learn anything at this time, as long as they have fun. The views of the two generations have diverged, and Huihui blushed for the first time with her parents-in-law. After the quarrel, Huihui actually regretted it. She felt that she had handled this matter inappropriately, and she could not quarrel with her in-laws no matter what. In fact, Huihui can also understand the psychology of her parents-in-law who are reluctant to give up their children. She is actually a little reluctant to give up. After all, the child is still young, and she does not know whether he can adapt to the collective life smoothly. But when she thought that "a child from another family" could already recognize a lot of characters and recite a lot of ancient poems, Huihui began to feel anxious. Her own child is still in the stage of "pure play". There are a lot of different children. Huihui worried that if she sent her children to school a year later, as her parents-in-law said, her own children would not be able to keep up with other people's rhythm, resulting in inferiority complex. In fact, as a mother, Huihui is understandable to have such anxiety. Many parents are even more anxious than Huihui. They started taking their children to early childhood classes when they were a few months old. Although children often sleep soundly in class, parents still feel that the money is worth it. Today's parents seem to have formed a "consensus" that the sooner their children receive education, the better for their children. They don't hesitate to empty their wallets, but also let their children win at the starting line. Unlike most anxious parents, there are a small number of parents who are very "Buddhist" and are unwilling to "pull the seedlings to encourage growth", but are willing to follow the child's own growth rhythm. For example, star Huo Siyan seems to be in a hurry when her son is going to school. When other children have already started kindergarten life and started to learn the eighteen martial arts, um hum did not go to kindergarten until the age of 4. Huo Siyan has her persistence and her clear understanding on this matter. She feels that sending her children to kindergarten one year later is a gift for children, especially boys, to grow up. And we can also feel that Huo Siyan's insistence seems to have her reasons, um, although he went to kindergarten a year later, he grew up under the nourishment of his parents' love, and he had more time to get along with his parents. It shows his confidence and generosity. In fact, when to send children to school depends on the situation of each child. Different children are like different saplings, growing at different rates. For some children, going to kindergarten one year in advance can be well adapted, while for some children, going to kindergarten one year later is suitable. Therefore, when it is suitable for children to go to kindergarten, parents should not be influenced by children of the same age, but should focus on their own children to see if their children have these three abilities. Whether a child is suitable for kindergarten depends on whether the child has a certain ability to express in these three aspects. After arriving at the kindergarten, the child needs to leave the parents or grandparents who get along with each other day and night, and come to a new environment. If the child does not have a certain ability to express, his needs are often not met in time, and his personality and other aspects will be affected, and he may become timid, or irritable, and have a certain aggressiveness. Parents can consider sending their children to kindergarten if their language skills are better and they can clearly articulate their needs. Because in collective life, it is impossible for teachers to pay attention to children all the time and guess every need of children. At this time, children's ability to express is particularly important. Whether the child has a certain self-care ability In addition to the expression ability, the child also needs to have a certain self-care ability before entering kindergarten. If children master the skills of self-eating, toileting, dressing, slippers, etc., children can better adapt to the collective life in kindergarten. Therefore, self-care ability and expression ability are the same as the standard for parents to judge whether their children can go to kindergarten. Children's adaptation to collective life When parents consider when to send their children to kindergarten, on the one hand, it depends on the child's ability, and on the other hand, they need to pay attention to the child's adaptation to kindergarten. If the child is very resistant to kindergarten, and even has a change in personality, then parents should not worry about it. They can consider waiting for the child to grow up before sending the child to kindergarten. Written in the last year of kindergarten, the principle does not apply to all children, because some children are naturally adaptable and adapt to group life early. Going to kindergarten one year later, for some children, does have an influence on him to change the trajectory of his life. When it is suitable to send their children to kindergarten, parents should not decide by themselves, but should judge according to the situation of their children. 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