what's wrong? The school just started, and my mother couldn't wait to transfer her child to another school, from the free public school to the 50,000 private tuition fee.

time:2022-11-27 05:47:13source:monlittlebaby.com author:Maternal-Child Nursing
what's wrong? The school just started, and my mother couldn't wait to transfer her child to another school, from the free public school to the 50,000 private tuition fee.

During the beginning of school, the mother group has not stopped to discuss, some go to the public, some go to the private, each talking about their own advantages. However, there are still many children going to public schools, because private ones are too expensive. I am in a small third- and fourth-tier city. Private tuition costs 50,000 yuan a year, not including meals and activities. Ordinary families can't afford it! But there is also an "explosive" news that spread in the mother group, that is, the thing that Wanwan's mother taught Wanwanzhuan. Less than a month after school started, Wanwan's mother transferred her from a free public school to a private aristocratic school with a tuition fee of up to 50,000 a year. Wanwan's parents are ordinary office workers, and the tuition fee is not small. While discussing, they said sourly, "Mother Wanwan is still rich. We can't afford to go to such an expensive school. In addition, the children usually eat, drink, and dress, and it costs seventy to eighty thousand a year, right?" I I asked Wanwan's mother in private to know the truth of the matter, which was different from what we thought. Wanwan's mother said that after the child entered the second grade, she was divided into classes and changed to a new head teacher. She had a lot of opinions on Wanwan. Other children can do anything, but when they come to Wanwan, they can't. Once, Wanwan forgot to bring the pinyin book, and was told by the teacher that she ordered her mother to send it to the school gate immediately. Wanwan's mother was at work, she immediately asked the leader for leave after hearing the news, went to the canteen to buy a copy, and sent it to the school gate. Seeing Wanwan with tears on her face, her mother felt very uncomfortable, and swore secretly that she would check her bag carefully in the future to avoid this situation. Later, when Wanwan and the children had a conflict, the teacher also called and asked Wanwan's mother to rush to the school. After arriving at the school, I learned that it was two children who grabbed a pencil and then fought. Wanwan's mother said Wanwan sternly. After half an hour at school, she didn't see another parent coming. The teacher asked Wanwan's mother to take Wanwan home and said that she should educate the child well. If it was her My child, I slapped me with two slaps long ago, and said that Wanwan's hands and feet are not clean, and he always takes things from classmates. Wanwan's mother was very sad to hear it, so she asked Wanwan to apologize to her classmates, and after saying goodbye to the teacher, she shed tears while cooking at home. After dinner in the evening, I asked Wanwan, did I take something from my classmates? Wanwan said no, it was the classmates who always took her, she asked for it, and the teacher told her about it. Fighting with classmates during the day is also true. It was obvious that the other party kicked her before she fought back, but the teacher felt that it was Wanwan who did it first. She also said that she would be fined 100 yuan for Wanwan. Will she dare to fight with her classmates in the future? While talking and crying, her mother looked very distressed, but she could only comfort Wanwan: Teacher Wang is a good teacher, she loves you, because she likes you and thinks you are a seedling. So, it is very strict with you. Although she comforts Wanwan with such words, her mother knows that children are sensitive and thorough. He can clearly perceive the teacher's exception to him, and his emotional state is not good every day. Sometimes he wakes up crying when he sleeps at night. Wanwan mother thought, do you want to talk to the teacher? But I heard from other parents that this is an excellent teacher, the teaching level is very good, and the parents have a good reputation. I don't know how to speak. Wanwan's mother said that there is only one public school nearby, and other public schools are far away, which makes it inconvenient to pick up and drop off children. Besides, it is also in a zoned area. There is no house nearby, so there is no way to go to school. Choosing this private school is purely a helpless move. I asked her, have you ever thought about changing classes? If you feel that there are some problems in the teacher's education of the child, you can actually choose to change the school or class. Wanwan's mother said that she had tried it and communicated with the school leaders. She said that the class assignment was a sure thing, and no matter who it was or why, it could not be changed. Seriously, if I hadn't heard Wanwan's mother say this, I might have thought like the people at the beginning of the article, thinking that Wanwan's mother was "crazy". Is such an expensive school necessary? Every time we encounter a child's problem, we first subconsciously think, "Is there a problem with family education?" In fact, sometimes it may be external factors. For example, what happened to Wanwan this time can be said to be family education. problem? Although Wanwan's mother didn't understand in the end why the teacher had such a deep stereotype of Wanwan, from my contact with Wanwan's mother and Wanwan, the problem should not be on them. It may be a certain behavior or behavior of the child that impresses the teacher at once, and he never takes off his tinted glasses again! If parents really ask teachers to discuss this topic in depth, what will be the result? I found a good friend of an elementary school teacher and chatted about the topic of "teacher has prejudice against students", and she replied to me: "Although the teacher is at fault, he can't let the child have no ability to resist setbacks. It's not a good idea to transfer schools when something happens." I asked her, what would you do if this happened to your child? She said, I can understand what you mean, it is to make me think in a different position, but the teacher is just an ordinary person, and many times there is no way to take care of the child in all aspects. If such a thing happened to my child, I would not Know what to do? Although I understand teachers very well, I am also a mother. She pondered for a long time and told me that if the communication fails, it may be a transfer! You see, even a teacher who has taught for many years does not know what to do when encountering such a thing. We don't evaluate teachers' faults or children's faults. First of all, as parents, we will consider the development of our children. If you can't compete, you may only have to transfer schools, and the parents are really humble. Conclusion: Education is a tree shaking another tree, but it is by no means an idea suppressing an idea. If your child encounters such a thing, would you choose to transfer your child? (The picture in this article comes from the Internet, if there is any infringement, please contact to delete it)
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