A family with a messy room cannot raise a promising child

time:2022-10-02 04:42:37source:monlittlebaby.com author:Make one's mouth water
A family with a messy room cannot raise a promising child

1 I have seen a public welfare film, which describes four pairs of parents - the first pair: Dad reads books, Mom cleans the house, and occasionally looks at each other, and their eyes are full of love. The second pair: sitting at a table to eat, occasionally serving each other's dishes, talking and laughing with each other. The third pair: Standing under the cherry tree on a date, with a stroller next to it, the family is enjoying themselves. The fourth pair: The two quarreled fiercely, the room was messy, and life was full of chicken feathers. When the children saw the first three pairs of parents, their smiles were full of joy and their eyes sparkled. When the fourth pair of parents appeared, their eyes dimmed immediately, and they were surrounded by anxiety and unease. Although the film is only a few minutes, many people are silent after watching it. There is a saying that a good family atmosphere will affect a child's life. Just imagine: if in a room, dirty clothes are tangled in the cupboard, the quilt on the bed is messed up, there are rubbish everywhere, and even the windows are covered with a layer of dust... When you are in it, you will How do you feel? Obviously it can't be pleasant. Adults are still like this, and children who are in the growing period will not be affected more deeply? 2 The company has a colleague, Yanan, who has a very "Madaha" character. The things on the table are always in a mess, and it takes a long time to find the documents to be used. No matter how many times the boss says it, it will not be changed. The home is also in a mess. Once I went to her house to deliver materials, and I couldn't even find a place to put my feet. Yanan scratched her head embarrassedly, and called her son to pour me tea, but she didn't expect her son to say in front of me, "If you want to pour it yourself, how do I know where the teacup is!" The scene was very embarrassing for a while. Looking back at her room: the curtains in the living room have not let light through for a long time, half a pack of unfinished potato chips are scattered on the sofa, the tableware and chopsticks in the kitchen are still unwashed last week, and the children's homework is spread out on the greasy floor. On the dining table... In fact, parents are role models for children. If you keep throwing things and never clean up, your children may only do more than you. Once someone starts a bad thing, the bad things that follow will often be unstoppable like tap water with an open valve, because inertia will make him feel that everyone does it. 3 "If you enter the orchid room for a long time, you will not smell its fragrance, and if you live in a dirty room for a long time, you will not realize its chaos." Keeping the room clean and tidy may seem like a simple manual labor, but it is actually full of profound life wisdom. If the room is not cleaned for a long time, it will be full of dust and clutter, and in the end you will not even want to step on the door; but if the family spends the energy to clean it regularly, the room will be clean and bright, and the people living in it will be comfortable and at ease. I was a guest at an old classmate's house last week, and I saw that the items in their home were neatly arranged, and the green plants were dotted among them. I was surprised: "Your house is so clean, there is no superfluous feeling!" The old classmate smiled and said: "The house was very messy when we first got married! It was almost when Nan Nan was born, buy it for her. After playing with the toys, we threw them away. The husband and I began to realize that when children were young, their ability to imitate was the strongest. The house was always messy, and it didn’t affect the children well, so at that time, our home began to be consciously cleaned regularly. "Teaching by words and deeds" is the best enlightenment teacher for children. If you cultivate the habit of cleaning up the room by yourself from an early age, the child will take the initiative to do things subtly. 4 So, when you find that life is starting to get messy at some point, you might as well calm down and tidy up your room. Disorganized things can make us restless, and by learning to clean up regularly, we can say goodbye to the messy room and wake up yearning for a new life. Especially when a child is young, it is a critical period to develop his (her) hands-on ability. Don't be immersed in anxiety and do what you can do at hand. For example, get up in the morning and take the initiative to fold the quilt neatly, learn how to fold clothes, and organize them according to the season or clothing style. The whole family cleans once a month, throw away what should be thrown, donate what can be donated, clean up the sundries, make the room look brand new, and the mood can suddenly become brighter. For children, a habit is: repeating simple things, repeating things with heart, and doing things with heart. Life is a journey, it is a long journey, and it is worthy of the years of this life to live the ordinary days with fireworks. Cooking raw food and tidying up messy rooms is the joy of life! Source: People's Daily
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