Divorce! This female internet celebrity decided to leave the house, netizens: support! finally freed

time:2022-12-09 09:54:12source:monlittlebaby.com author:Emergency treatment
Divorce! This female internet celebrity decided to leave the house, netizens: support! finally freed

After two years, this 58-year-old eldest sister named Su Min returned to the public eye with such a gesture. She is better known as a self-driving aunt who escaped marriage. Before the Mid-Autumn Festival, Su Min, who had driven more than 80,000 kilometers by himself, returned to his hometown in Henan for the first time. She and her husband made an appointment to meet at their daughter's house. Unexpectedly, her wife said something like this when she saw Su Min: "You still know you're coming back?" Aren't you very capable outside? I can't go on, are you coming back? I don't know if it's because of anger or lack of face. In the video, my husband not only sneers, but also throws a bowl and loses his temper. But over the past two years, over 600 days and nights, the husband did not take the initiative to make a phone call or send a warm message. Can their marriage be reconciled? We tried to pull the timeline back to October 2020. Su Min's popularity was due to this three-minute video. In the video, she has no makeup, no smile, and her hands are naturally on the steering wheel, and she is very calmly sighing about her married life in the first half of her life. Economically, the husband and her are on AA system. Except for her housework, laundry, and cooking, it is not money, and everything must be calculated clearly. Occasionally drive a highway, her husband will ask her for tolls. In life, in order to make her daughter easy to study, find a job, and get married in the future, she suppressed and suppressed the idea of ​​divorce. A video of a female blogger traveling by car on the Internet shocked her a lot. A person, a car, playing everywhere, is the real freedom, it turns out that some people can live like this. So, she bought a roof tent, a portable gas tank, a mini fridge, and some outdoor gear online, which she packed into her little white polo. Following the sentence in the video: "Friends, I'm going to leave, I'm going south." Su Min went to Qinling, Yunnan, and Hainan by one person and one car...I have eaten dipping noodles in Shaanxi, and spent 10 yuan in Yunnan. The hot springs are also lost in Chongqing. Because of this journey of "running away from home" that many people have thought about and few dare to try, she also appeared in foreign newspapers. She took a video of the self-driving tour and cut it by herself at first. Later, more and more people liked to watch it, and her daughter helped to cut it together. She even started to shoot vlogs, started live broadcasts, and used the latest gopro cameras and aerial photography planes. She said that in the past two years, she has seen more of the world than in the past 50 years. Someone invited her to shoot commercials, someone asked her to publish a book, and she even picked up the microphone and stood on stage to give a speech. She was completely red, and then what? Two years later, the people who were inspired by her, and the mother who had a similar experience and started to travel by car, have all ended their wandering and returned to the right track. As for herself, she never dared to go home. She also knew that her journey could not go on forever, but the knot between her and her husband was always there. "At most three or five years, I still have to return to the family. As for what will happen after returning, everyone knows very well." This time, returning home was not actually in her plan, just to send her grandson back to school. But as soon as he entered the boundaries of Henan, the woman who had roamed half of China hesitated. The husband is the face she doesn't want to see, and the home is the place she wants to escape. "I never know what kind of scenery I will see when I turn the corner, whether the other side of the mountain is green or devastated. I have hopes that he has an improved attitude, and through this period of reflection, he can recognize himself I hope that the two of us can talk calmly. I hope that we can live in harmony as a big family." This was more than a year ago, a reporter from People magazine was on a journey with Su Min, what she said to reporters. But at the beginning of the article, we also saw that two years after I left, time seemed to stand still in this home. The only thing that changed was Su Min, who fled, but her husband stayed where he was. So, just yesterday, Su Min made a decision that required great courage. Even if she went out of the house, even if she litigated, she would let each other out. But are there really bad people in this marriage of the previous generation? Su Min's daughter said that after her mother left, her father had been taking care of the twins at home. The image of my father outside is a good-natured man. He works in an institution, treats guests generously, has a good temper, smiles, and is very kind. Su Min's popularity also put a lot of outside pressure on her husband. Ending this painful marriage relationship for the two seems to be the best solution. While we are relieved for Su Min, we are also glad that we can live in such a good era. No matter what age you are, you have the right and the courage to make changes. Su Min's story can't help but think of another 58-year-old Aunt Huang who has recently become popular. When our impression of aunts is still in square dancing, mahjong, and housework, this aunt Huang from Changsha, dressed in a long green dress, made the young audience laugh on the stage, using her own humor, Self-confidence and dashing smash this stereotype. Laughing at her husband, hit the nail on the head: laughing at herself, poisonous and funny: Aunt Huang even took the initiative to reply to the young people's complaints about the aunts (taking pictures with flowers and buying too many silk scarves): At this age, why don't you help flowers? Help your husband? Why does aunt like silk scarves? That's because you are not old enough. As long as we remain curious about life and yearn for happiness. Whether it's a self-driving tour or a talk show, there must be a way to let us live less rigidly and let us live the life we ​​want. Image source: If there is any infringement in the parenting life of rice cake mothers, please contact to delete
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