Holding the baby in the wrong way can easily make the baby hunched over and shoulders high and low, so new parents should change it quickly

time:2023-02-07 08:48:55source:monlittlebaby.com author:Cry
Holding the baby in the wrong way can easily make the baby hunched over and shoulders high and low, so new parents should change it quickly

Outside the delivery room, when the nurses handed the swaddling newborn to the family members who were guarding the door, most new fathers were overjoyed. Wanwan's father is also such a "clumsy" novice father. Every time she sees him holding the baby, Wanwan's mother's heart goes to her throat, for fear that he will hurt the baby. For novice parents, don't think that the skill of "holding a baby" sounds simple, it is just physical labor. In fact, "holding a baby" is an out-and-out "technical job", and the technical content is very high. If there is no experience, it is easy for novice parents to "step on thunder" and pit their children. For example, some children find problems such as hunchback and high and low shoulders during the physical examination at a young age, which has a lot to do with the wrong way of holding the baby in the family. On the weekend, Wanwan's mother just came back from grocery shopping when she saw a scene that made her "frightened". Wanwan's father was letting Xiao Wanwan, who was only 2 months old, sit and lean on his belly. The father and daughter were watching the TV show attentively, and they didn't notice that Wanwan's mother's face was "clear" at the moment. Turn overcast". "How can you let the child sit? It will hurt her spine!" As soon as Wanwan's mother entered the door, she couldn't help but "Hedong roars". Dad, who was taking his baby to watch TV with gusto, was really frightened, and instinctively hugged Wan Wan. Xiao Wanwan, who had already tried to sit and see, was very "dissatisfied" with the horizontal hug, and expressed her "protest" with a loud cry. Like Wanwan's father, many novice parents or the older generation may use the wrong posture to "hold the baby" when they are not paying attention. And many times, even if the posture is wrong, people don't even know it. You must know that the incorrect way parents hold babies is very harmful to the growth and development of children. The following lists several common wrong ways to hold babies. Novice parents can compare and check by themselves. Or check whether the family members have been "stricken" in the process of bringing the baby.

Novice parents should stop using these wrong ways to hold their baby, and be careful to make the baby hunchback and shoulders too early

Holding a baby in a "sitting hold" way is first and foremost a kind of physical work. As the child grows and develops and the weight gradually increases, holding the baby will also consume more and more physical strength of the family. Many parents find that as their children grow up, it becomes more and more difficult to hold their children, and it doesn't take long for them to experience back pain. Therefore, they came up with a "lazy" way to hold the baby, which is "sitting hold". In this position to hold the baby, the adult can sit and let the baby sit and lean on the adult. For adults, this way of holding a baby is very labor-saving. For babies, they can sit early and have a wider field of vision, and they are very happy. But "sitting hold" is not a best-of-both baby holding position. For children under 5 months old, their spines are not fully developed, and sitting early will affect their spine development. Generally speaking, it is recommended that parents wait until the child is 5-6 months old before adopting the "sitting hug" posture. In order to reduce the burden on parents to carry babies, many "artifacts" for carrying babies came into being. The waist stool is a parenting artifact that is loved by mothers. The waist stool is like a small stool tied in front of the mother, and the baby sits on it, which can "liberate" the mother's hands. Although it is said that the waist stool is very labor-saving, the improper use of the waist stool by the parents will cause great harm to the growth and development of the baby. First of all, the lumbar stool is not suitable for children under half a year old, because for children under half a year old, the cervical and lumbar vertebrae are not fully developed. If parents let their children sit on the lumbar stool too early, the children may have cervical and lumbar spine damage, which is easy to deform the spine, which is not conducive to the normal growth and development of children. In addition, parents should pay more attention to the selection and correct use of waist stools. Some lumbar stools are unreasonably designed or used incorrectly by parents, which will cause certain damage to the child's hip joint. Reasonably designed waist stool, when the baby sits on it, can effectively support the pressure of the baby's legs, so as to protect the baby's hip joints. If parents choose a waist stool with a substandard design, or fail to use the waist stool correctly, the baby's thighs are suspended when sitting, and the pressure on the legs cannot be supported. Then, the baby may be at risk for a dislocated hip and a developmental deformity of the lower extremity. Likes to "shake and hold" babies Generally speaking, the older generation likes to "shake and hold" babies, especially when the child is sleeping. This way of holding a baby, which is very effective in the eyes of the older generation, is actually wrong. Although it is said that rocking and holding the baby is a good way to stop crying and coaxing the baby. If you let your baby get into the habit of rocking to fall asleep, once the rocking stops, the baby may resume crying. This way of holding the baby is not conducive to letting the child develop a good habit of falling asleep independently. In addition to this, shaking this hold is very risky for the child. Because when holding the baby, the shaking force is too high and the frequency is too fast, which is easy to cause the child to spit up milk, etc. In severe cases, the child's brain tissue will be edema, and the intracranial pressure will increase, which will affect the child's physical health. Therefore, if parents like to "shake and hold" or the elders in the family like to shake when they bring their babies, they must correct this wrong way of holding babies in time.

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The skill of holding a baby may seem simple, but it is actually very "fine". Many ways of holding babies that we think are labor-saving, in fact, will cause certain harm to the children. If you want your child to avoid hunchbacks, high and low shoulders, etc., and want your child to have a tall and straight posture when they grow up, parents should pay attention to the way they hold the baby from an early age, and hold the baby scientifically. (The pictures in this article are all from the Internet, if there is any infringement, please contact to delete)
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