A new type of comparison is emerging in schools, especially for boys, and parents express helplessness

time:2022-10-07 03:05:53source:monlittlebaby.com author:Diet
A new type of comparison is emerging in schools, especially for boys, and parents express helplessness

Now students are basically dressed the same, that is to say, the school uniform is unified. Before primary and secondary schools did not wear uniforms, many children liked to wear brand-name clothing, and those who wore big-brand clothing would look down on their plain-clothed classmates. Some children do not have their own goals, and there is no other place to show their value, so they rely more on external packaging, which may realize their sense of existence. A class teacher once said that two boys in the class had a conflict and had a fight. A boy accidentally tore another boy's clothes. Unexpectedly, the male classmate whose clothes were torn roared angrily: My clothes are limited edition, you can't afford it. The other boy burst into tears when he knew something was wrong. The teacher came over to take a look, the dress is really beautiful, and I don't know what brand it is. There was no other way but to call the parents of the two children, and finally negotiated and compensated for a little money, and the matter was settled. There is a proverb that says: Life is tired, half from survival, half from comparison. Children wear designer clothes and seem to have a sense of superiority at school. In this way, children with ordinary family conditions are ridiculed, resulting in inferiority complex. These underage children compete for famous brands and the latest clothes at a young age, which adds a lot of burden to the family. Parents are also helpless when they spend their hard-earned money on these things that are not worth it. The children just think about comparisons all day, and put their thoughts on learning to the outside world. Fortunately, school uniforms have gradually become popular. Now children wear uniform school uniforms, and there is basically no problem of comparing clothes. Many students compete because they are afraid of being laughed at by their classmates. All other children wear brand-name shoes, and if they don't, they will be rejected by others. In fact: "If you don't blindly compare yourself with others, you will be at ease." After the uniforms were unified, parents found that there was one thing that could not be unified besides clothes, and that was the shoes that the children wore. Boys, in particular, like all kinds of sports shoes and sneakers, and always pursue some popular brands, which can be said to be a blind comparison. At least a few hundred yuan, as many as several thousand, wearing a pair of limited-edition shoes, just to have face in front of the classmates, is completely vanity. There are also parents who angrily tell their children that you should not compare your material things with your classmates. If you have time to compare shoes, why not compare your academic performance? Children with better conditions at home will wear a pair of brand shoes, and many boys focus on a variety of new shoes. Some high sneaker prices surprised teachers. One teacher said that his monthly salary is more expensive than the shoes a boy wears when he does not go to work. What's the point of wearing such expensive shoes at a young age, and it's not something you bought with your own money. This will not help the child's future development. Parents spend money on buying limited-edition sneakers for their children. It is better to invest more in education, which can also reduce the tendency of underage children to compare. There is no need to wear expensive shoes in school, as long as they are suitable for normal exercise and normal walking. Teachers cannot be inclined to a student because of the expensive brand. As a student, it is better to maintain a simple student spirit. Now many children are still comparing electronic products, some are phones and watches, some are the latest mobile phones and computers. Some children will see where their classmates have traveled in winter and summer vacations, and those with good conditions will go abroad. If they are in China, they feel that they have no face. Some parents pick up the luxury cars driven by their children, while many families have very ordinary cars. These are items for children to compare. Some parents say that the conditions at home are okay, and the children can buy it if they like it. We work hard to make money, and the ultimate goal is to enjoy life better. Parents can also understand the mood. They always want to create a better material life for their children within the scope of their financial ability, and do not want their children to lose face. In fact, parents should wholeheartedly train their children to cultivate both inside and outside. Many parents are also comparing themselves to each other. If other people's children can use the latest mobile phones, their own children should also buy them back. Children from other families have to compete with each other in terms of food and clothing. However, what students should compare in school is learning, not material things. Tips: The heart of comparison is indeed a kind of comparison in the heart. If a person does not have correct values ​​for material things in his heart, it is not necessary to buy expensive shoes. Those who have a heart for comparison in material things are very deficient in spirit. Conclusion: In daily life, parents should also be good role models, pay attention to their behavior, words and deeds, and cultivate children's rational and correct consumption concepts. Parents should focus on the future life from material concerns, let children improve their outlook on life, values, enrich their spiritual world, and do more meaningful things. 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