The phenomenon of "cutting off relatives" intensifies: more and more post-90s and post-00s are no longer in contact with relatives

time:2022-10-02 05:19:07source:monlittlebaby.com author:Maternal-Child Nursing
The phenomenon of "cutting off relatives" intensifies: more and more post-90s and post-00s are no longer in contact with relatives

Text|Mother Jing is about to have the Mid-Autumn Festival again. Will your family go to visit relatives? Many times the people who visit relatives are the elderly in their 50s and 60s, and the post-90s and 00s usually stay at home to watch videos and play games! Now the post-90s and post-00s don't like to visit relatives anymore. There are even some old watches that you don't even know on the street. A netizen said: As soon as I think of visiting relatives for 7 days during the Chinese New Year, I hope to come to a lockdown or make it mandatory not to visit.

Why do the post-90s and post-00s generation do not like to visit relatives, and the phenomenon of divorce is becoming more and more serious? The reason is very realistic

Reason 1: Relatives have no sense of boundaries and ask you how much you scored in the exam when you go to primary school? When you were in junior high school, I asked if you hoped to be admitted to a key high school? When you go to high school, you ask which university you want to go to? When you go to college, you ask where you want to graduate? How much is your monthly salary after work? After a few years of work, I ask you, when do you talk about your girlfriend and boyfriend? After getting married, when will you have children? After giving birth, when did you have your second child? A netizen said that every time relatives asked him what he was doing and how much his salary was, he always said that his monthly salary was 2,000 yuan, and he worked overtime until 12 o'clock every day. It doesn't matter if people suffer! Relatives all hope that you have a bad life, so as to set off a good life for him! Reason 2: The family is in good condition and disdain to deal with it. The poor relatives in the poor family do not want to go to court with the rich relatives. Most of the post-90s and post-00s are only children. They are used to being self-reliant and have very strong self-esteem! If the conditions in the family are good, they don't want to pay attention to the poor relatives who come to fawn over them. And if the conditions in the family are poor, their self-esteem will make them reluctant to court relatives who are in good conditions. Naturally, they do not want to go to relatives. Reason 3: The space for activities has become larger. In the past, transportation was inconvenient. The scope of everyone’s activities was in towns or county towns. For example, you can study in a city thousands of miles away from home, work in a provincial capital thousands of kilometers away from home, and even get married in a distant marriage, which will make relatives look unfamiliar due to geographical isolation. Moreover, the work pressure is relatively high. If the vacation time is relatively short, even the hometown is reluctant to go back. Even if I go back to the hometown, I hope to have a good rest for a few days, and I don’t want to deal with some relatives in vain. Reason 4: I have been hurt by relatives. When the Wechat business in the circle of friends was popular, the relationship between relatives and friends was destroyed once. At that time, many of the products sold were copycats, or they needed relatives and friends to stock up, and it happened again and again. behavior hurts relatives. So I don't want to go to my relatives again during the Chinese New Year. Reason 5: There is no interest relationship between relatives. Nowadays, people are under a lot of pressure. Many times when making friends, we must consider the interest relationship. Even in the university, students are divided into three, six, nine and so on. Some students subconsciously make friends with those who have good academic performance and good family conditions, so that they can have more resources after they leave the society. Relatives are only blood relations, but in many cases the ability and resources are not equal, and it is difficult to talk with the unequal ability and resources, and naturally they are reluctant to visit relatives. Reason 6: Relatives are too polite. In the past, when the child returned to his grandmother's house, he played with the child and ran around the mountains and fields together. But now the child is too precious. If he accidentally falls when he runs out, the parents may not be happy. Therefore, many people are no longer enthusiastic about the relatives coming to the door. They are afraid that the greeting will not be good. The relatives were too polite, and everyone felt that it was meaningless. The phenomenon of divorce may be an inevitable process of social development. After all, urbanization is becoming more and more intense. Everyone lives in the city and does not know anyone who is familiar with the door. Moreover, the birth rate has dropped, and we actually have fewer and fewer relatives, and gradually we have only direct relatives. Topic: Will you go home to visit relatives during Chinese New Year? (The pictures are all from the Internet, if there is any infringement, please contact to delete) For more exciting content, please click: "New type of mother baby girl" is becoming more and more, and it has become the object of many boys' courtship. Stomach scars but also unwilling to "natural birth"? The reason is worried
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