Rumor: Boys talk late, don't worry, children's language development is delayed, parents should intervene from these three aspects

time:2022-10-07 10:42:45source:monlittlebaby.com author:Sneeze
Rumor: Boys talk late, don't worry, children's language development is delayed, parents should intervene from these three aspects

There are many moments when a child grows up that parents will never forget. Especially when a child calls out "Dad" and "Mom" for the first time, parents don't mention how excited they are. So, when does a child start talking? Generally speaking, babies of seven or eight months will begin to make "babbling" sounds. At this time, babies are actually talking unconsciously. Children really begin to speak consciously, mostly after the first year of life. In real life, some children do not speak until they are 2 or 3 years old, but their parents are not in a hurry, thinking that the children are "speaking late". As everyone knows, parents' "don't care" will delay the development of children's language ability. When it comes to the child's language ability, a "wonderful" parent I met when I took my daughter for a 2-year-old physical examination is still impressive. The mother took her son to the hospital for a check-up. When the doctor asked about the child's language ability, the parent replied indifferently: "Our child does not want to speak, and the boy speaks normally." The little boy has already He is 2 years old and his daughter is the same age as him. At this stage, he can communicate and interact with his family in simple sentences. But this little boy is like a little baby. Even his parents can't shout. When he wants to express, he always uses his fingers to "command". The doctor is also quite helpless for such "ignorant" parents, and instructs parents how to guide their children. But the parents still don't care: "The child's father speaks late, he only speaks when he is 3 years old, and now he is fine. The boy really doesn't care about his words." Seeing that the parents are so "stubborn", the doctor also directly pointed out the parents' problems. The reason why children speak late has a lot to do with their parents. Just in the few minutes of the physical examination, if the child has any needs, just point it with a finger, and the parents will immediately understand what he means and actively meet the needs of the child. It is not that the child is unwilling to speak, it is that there is absolutely no need to speak. Obviously, the 2-year-old boy can't even speak the most basic "parents", which belongs to "language delay". Some parents think that it is normal for boys to be "speaking late". In fact, whether it is a boy or a girl, language development is related to brain development. "Late language" children, the development of the brain in terms of language ability will be correspondingly delayed. Therefore, don't think that it doesn't matter if a boy is "speaking late", and parents must not delay their children because of their ignorance. So how do you know if your child is "speaking late"? In addition to comparing with children of the same age, parents can also evaluate their children's language skills by themselves. For a one-year-old child, be able to speak the first word, such as "mom", "daddy", "don't", etc. For a two-year-old child, the basic requirement is to master the ability to use two words superimposed, such as "I want to eat an apple", "I want to go out to play" and so on. For a three-year-old child, they need to be able to say 9-10 word sentences, such as "the baby is hungry and wants to eat", "Dad drives me out to play" and so on. After the assessment, if you find that your child's language development is delayed, should parents intervene? Some parents think that their children don't care when they talk, and they will naturally talk when they are older. This concept is obviously wrong. It is very necessary for parents to pay attention to children's late speech, not only to "manage", but also to use the correct method to "manage". What should I do if my child's language development is delayed? Parents should actively intervene in these three aspects (1) Parents should learn to "pretend to be confused". Many times, children are reluctant to speak, which is related to the doting of parents. Today's children are often "collecting thousands of pets in one", enjoying the treatment of "stars holding the moon" at home. If you want to eat an apple, just move your little finger, and the family can understand it, and immediately put the peeled apple to the child's mouth. The child does not want to do one thing, just shakes his head, frowns, and does not need to speak at all. When the child feels that there is no need to speak, he is reluctant to speak. Parents' "smartness" deprives their children of the opportunity to express themselves. Therefore, if they want their children to speak more, parents must learn to be "lazy". For example, when a child points to an apple and wants to eat an apple, parents can pretend to be confused and ask the child whether he wants to eat an apple or drink water. Under such guidance, children will gradually express their precise needs. ⑵Create a good language environment In addition to learning to "pretend to be confused", parents should actively create a good language environment for their children. In other words, don't keep your home quiet. Parents can take their children to read picture books together and tell their children interesting stories in the picture books. It should be noted that parents should learn to interact with their children in a timely manner when reading picture books, and create opportunities for children to express themselves, instead of mechanically reading word by word. In addition, parents can play some catchy nursery rhymes to their children to "grind their ears". In a good language environment, children can imitate, interact with their families, and their ability to speak will gradually increase. (3) Increase opportunities for children to communicate with their peers We know that the best way to learn a foreign language is to live in the language environment of this foreign language and communicate with foreigners. The same is true for children learning to speak. Parents can take their children outdoors to increase the opportunities for children to communicate with their peers, and bring their children to play with other children in the community. Over time, children will learn to express themselves. It is written at the end that a child's language ability is closely related to brain development, so parents should not think that it is normal for a child to be "late talker" or that it is normal for a boy to talk late. If you want preschool children to learn to express, parents' "intervention" is particularly important. Parents, pay attention to the development of children's language skills, and don't delay their children. (The pictures in this article are all from the Internet, if there is any infringement, please contact to delete)
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