Parents' Sorrow

time:2022-11-27 author:Common phenomenon
Parents' Sorrow

The picture comes from the Internet August has come to an end, and the opening season of September will usher in new students at all stages: little babies in kindergarten, small bean bags in primary school, energetic teenagers in middle school, and students in college... In fact, every learning At the beginning of the stage, children will yearn for it. After all, a new world full of unknowns is about to open, which is a great satisfaction for their curiosity; and the beginning of each learning stage is also the most important thing for parents. When they are worried, children go to kindergarten - worry, enter elementary school - confused, enter middle school - worry, go to university - worry. From young to small is a very magical stage, a stage in which parents will fall into short-term confusion. The picture comes from the Internet. Nowadays, it is not allowed to teach in advance in kindergartens, and it is not allowed to explain elementary school knowledge. It has become an explicit rule. Many kindergartens have also adjusted their direction in time, and the training of large-class children has changed from the advanced education of knowledge in the past to the rational development of learning habits and learning methods, while avoiding knowledge. In this way, many parents will start to be confused and have all kinds of involuntary worries: Will their children not be able to keep up with the progress when they enter primary school? Can't get used to the rhythm? Don't know where to start with the sudden increase in knowledge? ... Therefore, parents will take the initiative to attack. Since the kindergarten does not allow teaching, let's teach it at home. The left and right are only the knowledge of primary school, and the parents think that they are still able to do it well. The picture comes from the Internet. However, what makes parents stunned is that there is no systematic planning and no rigorous teaching method. Even if all the knowledge of primary school is instilled in the children, most of them cannot escape these two results: 1. The child seems to have mastered it. One year of primary school knowledge, in the primary school classroom, I seem to understand but I think I understand; I seem to know but blindly think that I can... As a result, good study habits have not been developed, and the thinking ability that they should have is not possessed. There may be occasional surprises, but most of the time in the class is not good. 2. Parents' incorrect educational methods, overcorrection, make children shy away from learning, and can only stay away, either lie down directly, or simply resist to the end. Alas, one word: why bother? The picture comes from the Internet

Parents work so hard and work hard, but their children are still not good enough. Where is the problem?

Some experts pointed out that for parents of young children, most of the extra knowledge counseling for their children will affect their children's normal learning and cognition due to incorrect methods. The knowledge of the first grade is simple and very simple, and parents can guide them; but the accumulation of knowledge is often not the knowledge itself, but the process of acquiring knowledge, and the methods to teach them are specially designed according to the children's growth process and age characteristics. , thinking ability, is the most critical. That is to say, in the early stage of children's learning, cultivating their interests and thinking is much more important than teaching knowledge and finding answers, but it is easily overlooked by parents. Forcibly instilling knowledge into children will only lead to many adverse consequences: for example, they are paradoxical about knowledge, half-understood, and they do not know much about it, it is not easy to concentrate in class, and they always feel that they can; The picture comes from the Internet

How to cultivate the learning interest and thinking ability of young children?

The answer is simple! 1. in play; 2. in life. The pictures are from the Internet. If there are no children who don't like to play, then play with them. Some parents will accompany their children to play purely and gain a strong parent-child relationship, which is also very good; some parents guide their children to what they see and hear in the process of playing. And the proactive effort to find answers to questions. Much of the natural sciences stem from the thinking and verification of situations encountered in play. For example, Newton, who discovered universal gravitation, was thinking when he saw the apple fall. For example, Franklin and his son were flying a kite in the suburbs and encountered thunder and lightning, so they invented the lightning rod... Play amplifies the child's freedom and loosens it. Confinement of children. Pictures come from the Internet and there are many things that can be learned in life. For example, today is what month, day and day of the week, teach children the concept of date; what time is it, teach children the concept of time; children's clothes are smaller, pants are shorter, and people are taller, which leads to the unit of length ; Supermarket shopping, buying snacks, and even haggling are the concepts of prices, numbers, and additions and subtractions for children. In spring, when the grass grows and warblers fly, and all things recover, it is an education for growth and life; in summer, the hot sun and long days and short nights are a good time to learn about solar terms; in autumn, the falling leaves and white dew become frost, which is a wonderful fusion of the desolation and beauty of nature. Artistic influence; winter nights are covered in snow and thousands of miles of ice are frozen, which is a cycle of the four seasons. What is life, this is life; in life, children acquire all kinds of knowledge unconsciously, and increase all kinds of knowledge, how precious and how memorable. The pictures are from the Internet, so to put it simply, for the stage of childhood to primary school, the key is to let children learn to learn and enjoy learning; learn to cooperate and communicate with peers; learn to have a focused spirit and good learning in the learning process Habit. You must know that it is easy to make up for the lack of knowledge. If you don't have good study habits and attitudes, it is the beginning of your child's learning that will eventually have regrets.
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