It is very important who a child sleeps with at night before the age of 6. It is related to the development of his character throughout his life. Don't ignore it.

time:2022-12-09 09:38:21source:monlittlebaby.com author:Make one's mouth water
It is very important who a child sleeps with at night before the age of 6. It is related to the development of his character throughout his life. Don't ignore it.

Text | Cheats in the mother group yesterday, a mother said that she is very entangled now: the maternity leave is about to end, and she has to go to work. Due to the nature of my work, it is a common thing to go out early and return late. At that time, in order to have a good rest for myself and my children, I want my son to sleep with his mother-in-law at night. But I also thought that I didn't have time to accompany the child during the day, and I would not sleep with the child at night, worrying that it would have a bad impact on the child. As a mother, I understand this mother's struggles. When children are young, no mother is easy. Whether it is a stay-at-home mom or a work place, a stay-at-home mom can provide more companionship and care for their children. Working mothers are busy with work during the day and only have time to spend with their children at night, but many mothers are too busy and tired at work, and their children are too noisy at night, so they want their children to sleep with their grandma at night. However, multiple studies have confirmed that who a child sleeps with at night before the age of 6 is related to the development of a child's character throughout his life. It is very important who a child sleeps with at night before the age of 6. It is related to the development of his lifelong character, so mother should not ignore it.

Children sleep with their parents before the age of 6, and establish a close and good parent-child relationship with their parents, which will give the child a sense of security and safety throughout his life. Confidence

A child before the age of 6 is a critical period for developing close relationships with parents and establishing a sense of security. In life, many parents are busy with work during the day and only have time to accompany their children at night. And at night is a relatively quiet and warm time. The child is extremely dependent on the person who is with him at night, and the child's whole body is on the person who sleeps with him. Children trust and rely most on their parents since childhood. They have a series of parent-child interactions with children before going to bed, such as hugging children, telling stories to children, reading picture books, playing games, etc. When the child is tired from playing, he sleeps in his mother's creaking nest, smelling his mother's body and entering a sweet dreamland. What the child sees before going to bed is the familiar face of his mother. Waking up in a daze in the middle of the night, the child sees the familiar mother by his side, he may turn over and continue to sleep, and the first thing he sees when he wakes up in the morning may be his mother. This kind of trust and intimacy is only possessed between mother and child when the child is young. It is precious, but it is fleeting. For children, these nights of sleeping with their mothers as children, although short, are normal. But it fills the child's heart with a sense of security and establishes a very close parent-child relationship with his mother, which is the child's greatest spiritual wealth and food. Children with a sense of security tend to be cheerful and confident, and have a stronger ability to perceive happiness. Such children are happier. And if the child sleeps with grandparents or grandparents before the age of 6, although the older generation can take good care of the child. But they can't replace the comfort and company of their parents. Children brought up by their grandparents since childhood are relatively indifferent, and it is difficult for them to enter into an intimate relationship, and they will be very hurt in love and marriage in the future. The most important thing is that the parent-child relationship will be very bad. Therefore, even if parents cannot accompany their children during the day, they must accompany their children at night and sleep with them. No matter how hard the parents are, it will only be in those few years. When the children go to kindergarten, primary school, and have their own circle, they will not be so dependent on their parents. [Topic discussion: Who did your children sleep with when they were young? 】Senior nursery teacher, psychological consultant. He understands parenting and psychology, and also pays attention to the mother's self-growth and family management, and strives to be a caring person for mothers. Welcome to [Parenting Cheats], you can find the answers here for everything you want to know about parenting care, growth and development, family education, and mental health!
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