Babies who love to play with these kinds of toys before the age of 3 will not be bad at concentration, imagination, social skills...

time:2022-12-09 09:03:36source:monlittlebaby.com author:Make one's mouth water
Babies who love to play with these kinds of toys before the age of 3 will not be bad at concentration, imagination, social skills...

CD Mom CD Mom and Dad Since having a baby, worrying seems to be the norm for mothers. Every time I go downstairs to walk my baby, it is easy to encounter parents asking each other about their children. What baby speaks neatly? How are the abilities developed? Occasionally I will be asked, of course, I will inevitably ask back a few words, who doesn't care about children's early education? For fear that the baby's early education will not be timely, and then "lose at the starting line". In fact, educational toys are very useful for early ability development! After all, a core of early education is to practice "learning by playing". But there are always parents who say that they have bought a bunch of toys for their children, but they don't know how to use them or how to maximize the value of the toys. Today, Mother C is here to talk to you about this topic, and to talk about the different abilities that different toys can cultivate in children. Part.1 Concentration How important is it for children to cultivate concentration? The famous psychologist Daniel Gorman said that concentration is a more likely factor for children to succeed than IQ. But to be honest, what this class lacks most now is the concentration to calm down and do something well. This is true, but the environment in which the child lives is too lively. The artificial "interesting life" when we play with us at home; the "interesting world" that is crowded with traffic outdoors. You see, children do not have the space to think quietly, and their ability to concentrate cannot be developed. What will this result in? When a child encounters a problem, the first reaction will be "I won't, this is too difficult" instead of focusing on solving it. However, this kind of concentration in children can actually be cultivated. In my opinion, building blocks and puzzles, including the pebbles and bear counts that we have made before, are the most representative toys for cultivating concentration. Let's take building blocks as an example. For children, it is one of the most ideal educational and enlightening toys. Word of mouth has no evidence, guide CC&DD. When the child is young, play with the simplest stacking height, or we can guide and guide the child a little, and let the child do color and shape matching. When it’s a little bigger, build a small house, a big castle, a country road, a bridge across the sea according to the blueprints. . Because from how to stack two building blocks together, how to put them into the shape of a house... all these require the brain to think about, and this process needs to be shielded from external interference, and the spirit should be completely devoted to this matter. , otherwise the children will not be able to complete it. Invisibly, it trains the child's concentration. Anyway, my two kids have always had a soft spot for building blocks, and when they start playing, they don't want to focus on it. Sometimes, even the whole family goes into battle and plays for 3 hours without stopping, which is an artifact for properly exercising concentration. Although, this is also the biggest reason for the piles of building blocks in my house, but the baby's concentration has improved, so what else can I care about. It's better than worrying about the baby playing this and that for a while, which damages concentration. Part.2 Observation Cultivating "observation, observation" actually represents two abilities: observation means seeing, and observation means thinking. That is to say, to observe a thing is to first see what it is, and then to think about why it is so, or how to solve it. So, if children develop well in this ability, their ability to think and solve problems will not be bad. In addition, observation can also promote the intellectual development of children. Children's intellectual development needs stimulation from the external environment. The richer the stimulation, the more perfect the brain development. However, the premise for the brain to receive these stimuli is that the eye needs to detect it first. Not found, how to stimulate it? Therefore, the guidance of observation is very important. So what kind of toys are typical for exercising observation? --find difference. Take this little detective picture book that DD likes very much recently. It is a typical example of training observation. For example: Who on this page is not getting enough sleep? Who has played with cats on this page? We can guide him to observe the demeanor, movements and surrounding objects of the small animals to finally judge which small animal is not getting enough sleep. In this way, while children are having fun, their observation skills are exercised unconsciously. In general, the exercise of observation does not have to be restricted to a certain kind of toy. Even going out to play, let the children see what is the difference between the two leaves and the difference between the two stones, it is also a good way to exercise. Part.3 Imagination Cultivation Einstein once said that imagination is more important than knowledge, because knowledge is limited and imagination is infinite. That's right, imagination can infinitely expand children's thinking space, allowing them to think from more perspectives when facing problems, to use their creativity, and to try different ways to solve them. For young babies, they do not have enough knowledge and experience, imagination is undoubtedly very important. And if you want to cultivate children's imagination, the children's favorite and easiest to use is graffiti. After all, writing and drawing seems to be the nature of many children when they were young. Many mothers may worry that their children are too young to draw or draw poorly. But for children, painting is not only a skill, but also a thinking activity, a channel for them to develop their imagination. Actor Sun Li's children, etc. and Xiaohua also like to doodle. For this reason, she also posted on Weibo: "Don't affect their creation, the wallpaper can be changed, but the inspiration can't wait." You will find that in the child's pen, the mother may be Long ears, the clouds could be pink, the house could be round...even though there's no formula for it, it's even "wrong" in our opinion. But for children, it's their own creative process using their imaginations. Mom's ears are long because she has to wear glasses and a mask. If she doesn't grow her ears, she will be too tired; the clouds are pink because the cloud that went out today is a girl; the house is round so that she can "roll" at any time To get to where you want to go... You see, their way of thinking is always so interesting and cute, what reason is there to limit it? Anyway, since the two kids in my family started picking up pens, they haven't put them down yet. What DD likes most at this meeting is all kinds of graffiti, which makes me still worry from time to time whether they will make a sudden change in the style of painting at home into a style of hip-hop graffiti. Part.4 Social skills training about children's social skills has also attracted much attention from mothers, and we have also chatted many times on our official account. Why can't you talk well, and have fun with your friends... Damn, where can you not worry about it? After all, as children grow up, they will always integrate into new social circles, and they will enter the kindergarten in the future. In order for children to make friends smoothly in the future, not to bully others, not to be bullied, social skills must be cultivated. In addition to the social skills that we often say about the old mother's word of mouth, it is also very important to let the baby experience it first-hand. At this time, I have to mention the enduring game of "playing the house", I believe we all played it when we were young. Now, when a few friends get together, the favorite is this "traditional game." Just like finding differences, many things around you can be used as props to play at home. For example, this little bear counting toy is the scene of a large-scale sitcom. The yellow bear, the green bear, and the red bear are going to start a three-way tug-of-war. Who can win? Several small partners have each side, and they can have a raging battle at any time! Or, child A is whispering to a few bears, and the bear and child B outside want to eavesdrop... In addition, there are many things that can be used: use building blocks to make a small home and invite others to be guests; dolls Pretend to be a patient, go to the doctor... We can act with our children whenever we have nothing to do. When the children are free to play according to their own preferences, we secretly teach them how to socialize correctly. This is the right way to cultivate children's social skills! C mother said so much, in fact, is to use different types of toys to cultivate children's ability. Of course, the same type of toy does not only exercise one ability, and the same ability does not only use one type of toy. All toys can be integrated, as long as they work for the child. Seeing that the children are getting bigger and bigger, mothers are gradually worrying about the cultivation of various abilities. After all, when they enter the kindergarten at the age of 3, they may have to use them to help their children better adapt to the life in the kindergarten. What I hope most when raising a child is to let the child learn by playing, learning by using, and learning by doing. For this reason, I especially like to spend my time on children's toys, the effect is not bad, you can refer to it.
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