Whether or not you want your husband to accompany you during childbirth, in fact, the most important thing is to look at this matter

time:2022-10-07 11:21:29source:monlittlebaby.com author:Make one's mouth water
Whether or not you want your husband to accompany you during childbirth, in fact, the most important thing is to look at this matter

Childbirth has been a life-and-death juncture for women since ancient times. Historically, because of superstition, husbands were often not allowed to enter the delivery room, but now with the development of the times, some hospitals have begun to allow family members to accompany the delivery. However, at this time, pregnant mothers began to hesitate, because they may encounter some small embarrassment during delivery, and they do not want to be seen by their husbands. For example: 1. Internal examination The purpose of internal examination before delivery is to understand the pregnant mother's uterus According to the situation of the mouth, the labor process is clear, and it is convenient to deal with it in a timely and accurate manner. Internal examination is to put your hand into the vagina for examination. It may be a little painful and uncomfortable, but it is still relatively fast. The pregnant mother should be patient during the examination. 2. Undressing During childbirth, you naturally have to take off your clothes, especially when you have a caesarean section, you have to take off your whole body clothes. This operation is not only for the smooth delivery of the baby, but also for the mother herself, so there is no need to be shy or afraid, just follow the procedure. 3. This step is required for perineal skin preparation whether it is a natural birth or a caesarean section. Perineal skin preparation is actually shaving pubic hair. First, it is easier to disinfect and suture perineal wounds for mothers who give birth naturally; secondly, pubic hair is easy to breed bacteria, if not shaving, the baby may be infected when it is delivered; thirdly, it is also conducive to genital cleaning, which is very necessary preparation for childbirth. 4. Shouting When many mothers give birth, they will be particularly in pain, and they can't help but shout. However, pregnant mothers should try their best to restrain themselves and maintain physical strength; and too early exertion may cause cervical laceration and severe perineal tear. Therefore, you must listen to the guidance of the medical staff present during the delivery to ensure a smooth delivery. 5. Incontinence During childbirth, the baby's head continues to descend, which will compress the rectum, produce a feeling of defecation, and may also be pulled out directly. This is a normal situation, doctors and midwives are also used to it, and pregnant mothers do not need to feel shy. The above are the reasons why pregnant mothers hesitate to let their husbands into the delivery room and accompany them in the delivery room. They worry that the husband sees these embarrassing situations, which will affect the relationship between husband and wife. In the popular TV series "Dear Child" some time ago, the heroine Fang Yinuo did not ask her husband Xiao Lu to enter the delivery room to accompany the delivery. The painful husband in the delivery room was not accompanied. When he saw Fang Yinuo urinating incontinence after giving birth, Xiao Lu showed an expression of disgust. Coupled with a series of events that happened before and after, their marriage finally came to an end. But there are also some couples. After the husband accompanies the whole delivery, the relationship is better, the husband is more considerate of the wife's efforts, the wife is also grateful for the husband's consideration, and there is a lovely crystallization of love, and the family life is more warm. Therefore, regarding the accompaniment of childbirth, it is still divided into people. Some husbands are more suitable, while others are not. Therefore, whether or not the husband should accompany the childbirth, you must communicate with the husband well before giving birth. First, pay attention to how you communicate. From pregnancy to childbirth, because the mother is the party involved in the whole process, it seems that she has the most say, but at this time, the more you should pay attention to listening. One-sided "I think" may lead to unpleasantness on both sides, and eventually evolve into a gap in the heart. Letting each other judge without any pressure is often the best option. Next, consider the specific circumstances of the father-to-be. Accompanying delivery in the delivery room is different from ordinary hospital bed accompaniment, and it is a considerable test for prospective fathers. Accompanying delivery is not only an "emotional intelligence" job, but a husband who accompanies a delivery at close range not only needs to pay attention to and appease his wife's emotions, but also needs to cooperate with the doctor. Before making a decision, confirm the physical and psychological condition of the prospective father, so as to avoid delaying the delivery process of the pregnant mother. If the prospective father's psychological quality is poor, or he has dizziness, serious heart disease, high blood pressure and other diseases, he must not force himself. Wait patiently outside the delivery room, comfort and take care of your wife as soon as possible, you are still the hero in her heart! The husband accompany the childbirth, must be the wife's greatest comfort and the best support. If the result is good, everyone will naturally be happy. Everyone has experienced a "ghost gate", and their relationship will advance by leaps and bounds; but if the result is not good, it may even lead to a breakdown of the relationship between the two parties, which is contrary to the original intention of letting the husband accompany the delivery. Therefore, both parties must communicate well about the matter of accompany childbirth. By doing enough communication before making a decision, you can avoid unnecessary rift between the two parties, and avoid a series of panics that may occur after escorting the child, and it can also avoid possible "bad consequences". For example, if the husband has certain psychological or physical obstacles after giving birth, he should seek the help of a doctor in time to avoid burying hidden dangers for his family life in the future. Having said so much, in fact, we should look at the specific circumstances of each family and decide whether or not to let the husband enter the delivery room to accompany the delivery at close range. I hope that every couple will be lucky enough to usher in the crystallization of love, and the family will be happy for a long time!
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