Why do you empathize, but the child doesn't buy it? In these 6 pictures, there may be your shadow

time:2022-10-07 14:03:21source:monlittlebaby.com author:Emergency treatment
Why do you empathize, but the child doesn't buy it? In these 6 pictures, there may be your shadow

Author: Niu Ma Peng Xiaobeng Source: Niu Ma Peng Xiaobeng (ID: pengxiaobeng) To maintain a good parent-child relationship with their children, parents must learn to empathize and communicate. From the perspective of a child to experience his feelings, love can flow and communication can be useful. For communication to be useful, the most important thing is to be able to flow. Children can feel the care, blessing, and love that flow from their parents, and trust and understanding flow from their children... This is the purpose of communication, so you must stand on the other side's point of view. Our demands on our children imply a threat: "If you don't cooperate, I will punish you." A parent-child relationship in such a situation will only hurt both sides. Love children, start with a good talk! Speak well, start with really learning to empathize, apologize, and communicate without pre-determined answers. The core of communication is not arguing about what is right or wrong, but about people who care about each other. When people are right, the problem can be solved. Source: Niu Ma Peng Xiaobeng (ID: pengxiaobeng). Author: Niu Ma Peng Xiaobeng, mother of two children, Adler School Psychological Consultant, Professional Director of Home-School-Community Co-education of China Family Education Association, published parenting cartoon collection "Grow up, Don't Panic" was selected for national family parent-child reading bibliography.
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