"The same child goes to kindergarten. My mother is 00 years old, and I am 79 years old. I am not calm in an instant."

time:2023-02-02 06:31:31source:monlittlebaby.com author:Emergency treatment
"The same child goes to kindergarten. My mother is 00 years old, and I am 79 years old. I am not calm in an instant."

Text|Cheat Master "Oh my God, have all the babies in 2000 went to kindergarten? I signed up my daughter to kindergarten two days ago, and I saw that the mother on the parent's registration roster was in 2000. In 2000, I am 22 years old today, which means People have children when they are 19 years old. What am I doing at 19 years old? I am going to college at 19 years old. Everyone has already given birth to children. My daughter has just entered kindergarten in 79 years, and the difference is 22 years old. According to this trend, people I am a grandmother at the age of 40, and my daughter is still in kindergarten. The gap in my life is too big, and I am not calm anymore.” After registering her little niece’s name, the cousin who was married and had children at a later age immediately called me to express her uneasy mood. From her tone, I really felt her restlessness. Then I told my cousin how normal this is. Some people marry late and have children later, and there are people who marry early and have early children. Everyone's life trajectory is different. Although most women have to go through the stage of giving birth, the gap between early and late births is not generally large, and they lead different lives.

Anyone who is born early usually has little education, so getting married and having children early is not necessarily a good thing.

I see a lot of girls posting on the Internet When I was seventeen or eighteen, I became a mother, and when I was thirty or forty years old, I became a grandmother and a grandmother. Inside and out and proud of it. I think it's fine for the client to be happy, and there's really no need to publicize this idea. You must know that girls are about 22 years old after finishing university, not to mention that more and more girls are pursuing higher education and will continue to study for masters and doctorates, so the age of marriage is generally very late. Even if you graduate from a bachelor's degree and work for a few more years to find your own career plan, the age of marriage will still be twenty-five or six. Think about those girls who got married in seventeen or eighteen and didn't even finish high school. After barely finishing junior high school, he went out to work, got married and had a baby within a few years, and was trapped by the family of children since childhood. My own thinking is immature, and I have no understanding of marriage and family, so I enter marriage, not to mention what good education I can give my children, and I don’t even know how to manage my own marriage, which may be a tragedy. What's more important is that the girl herself has no education. She married and had children early and was trapped in the family. Her great youth was all used to deal with the trivial matters of the family. When you bring up your own children, the children are likely to follow their own old ways, get married and have children early, and then go to take care of their grandchildren, and they will be on the road of giving birth and raising children all their lives, which is quite sad to think about. Moreover, these women have no education, and most of them depend on their in-laws and men to survive, and their marriages are very unstable.

Having a baby too late is not necessarily a good thing for children and women

Of course it is not advisable to have a baby too late, especially when the mother is older more adventurous. The older a woman is, the less likely it is to get pregnant, and the quality of her eggs is also not good. Therefore, older mothers will take more risks during pregnancy and childbirth. At the same time, the quality of the children born is also worrying. Of course, more importantly, older mothers will have a harder time raising their children. Although older mothers may be financially wealthier, raising children is not just about money, it requires physical strength and energy. Older mothers will be unable to take care of their children as their children grow up. The generation gap between children and mothers is too large, which will also affect the physical and mental health of children. So I think for getting married and having children, if you don’t plan to die alone, what age and what to do is the most appropriate. [Topic discussion: Do you have a mother who gave birth to a baby very early? How old is the baby? 】Senior nursery teacher, psychological consultant. He understands parenting and psychology, and also pays attention to the mother's self-growth and family management, and strives to be a caring person for mothers. Welcome to [Parenting Cheats], you can find the answers here for everything you want to know about parenting care, growth and development, family education, and mental health!
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