Understanding children is the beginning of educating children

time:2022-12-05 06:22:37source:monlittlebaby.com author:Sneeze
Understanding children is the beginning of educating children

Do we really understand children? Reading a child's inner world is a big proposition. When we hold our children in awe, we realize how ignorant and frivolous we used to be. Children are gifts from God. They are originally complete. They are human angels with pure hearts. They need to grow up in their own way, not let them grow up in the way of adults. "Understanding" the child is the beginning of education. If we don't understand the child, then the "education" we implement for the child will be a disaster for the child! Children who kill their parents. Children who commit suicide. We can't help but reflect. Most of the children's problems are caused by our improper education. If we only look for the reasons from the children, only expect the children to change, and do not examine and reflect from ourselves, I am afraid that the children will not have real changes. "Pity the hearts of the world's parents", everyone believes that there are almost no parents in the world who do not love their children, but what is love? Love is understanding, respect and acceptance. Understanding is the premise of love. If you don't understand your child, then the so-called "love" you give your child is not true love, but may be hurt in the name of "love"! Understanding children is the first step in learning to love children. Only by spending more time with children and trying to understand the inner world and needs behind their words and deeds, can we give children true love. Otherwise, no matter how superior material conditions we provide, no matter how much we feel we love our children, our children may not receive our love signal. Parents who don't understand their children will blame them wrongly, demand them unrealistically, push them far away, and a parent-child war will break out. Squat down and follow the child's line of sight to see his world. Children fight against their parents because their parents' education method is simple and rude. "Three years old for life" I believe many parents have heard of it. The importance of early education is far more than any stage of primary school, middle school, and university. The age of 0 to 6 is an important stage for children to build themselves. Figuratively speaking, education before the age of 6 is like the foundation of a high-rise building. Only when the foundation is laid can the high-rise building be built steadily. Early childhood education is not "early education", it is to let children do suitable things at suitable stages. Everything has a time. When your child has not yet learned to read, if you teach him at this time, of course he will not be interested in memorizing. The best education is to seize the sensitive period of children. Parents are the first teachers of their children, and they have an absolute dominant position in their children's education, which is unparalleled and irreplaceable by anyone! , the parental position is more important than any position! No one is born to be a parent, and parenting also requires "pre-job training" and learning, otherwise you can only feed and raise your children. Some people describe that there are three types of parents in the world: the first type is a parent who neither understands education nor educates their children, and their children grow up moderately; the second type is a parent who neither understands education but wants to educate their children, whose children Growing up the worst; the third type is parents who both understand and value education, and their children grow the best. "Education mother" Chen Meiling said: education is the best gift parents can give their children. Infancy is the most important period in education. Many psychologists and educators generally agree that investing in education in infancy and early childhood pays the most. Preschool children should be watched closely, stay together as much as possible, and give them full maternal love. If education in infancy and early childhood is smooth, it will be much easier to raise after the child goes to school. Children's education is not only the cultivation of learning ability, but also the process of forming a comprehensive personality from both physical and mental aspects. I hope that every parent can continue to learn and improve, grow with their children, be a good parent with wisdom and understanding of education, cultivate children's healthy personality such as self-confidence, independence, tenacity, and cooperation, and give their children a happy life.
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