"I spent 200,000 yuan to be a test-tube baby"

time:2022-09-27 04:50:36source:monlittlebaby.com author:Make one's mouth water
"I spent 200,000 yuan to be a test-tube baby"

In May 2021, The Lancet published a document showing that from 2007 to 2020, the incidence of infertility in China has risen from 12% to 18%, and the number of infertile patients has exceeded 50 million in 2020. The technology of IVF is also known as the "last hope" for infertile families. However, many patients require repeated treatment, which is a heavy burden for many low-income families. For this reason, some families had to accept the relief of their mothers, some people almost divorced because of it, and some people had to choose to give up because of money... Let's take a look at the stories of these test-tube baby experiencers. 1 I feel very guilty about taking my mother's money for the test tube @Netizen Acc My husband and I have been together for five years, and now I only got the certificate, and I haven't had time to hold the wedding. Last summer, I found out that the recurrence of bilateral Qiao capsules was accompanied by effusion. I went to many hospitals, and almost all doctors suggested to have a child immediately. Because the time left for me to have a baby is very short. Poor ovarian function and severe pelvic adhesions all "forced" me to have surgery, but after surgery, I may not be able to have children again in my life. And my chances of getting pregnant myself are slim to none. In the end, the only way in front of me is the test tube. Regarding my condition and test tube, I didn't mention anything about my husband's family, for fear that they would mind, and even more fear that they would look down on me because of it. And what the test tube means, it means that it needs money, energy, and time. When I told my mother that I had decided to have a test tube, she took the train from my hometown for a day to Beijing, accompanied me to the hospital, consulted a doctor... After everything was settled, my mother was clamoring to go back to my hometown. . After taking her to the car, I received a call from her before I could get on the return car: "There is 50,000 yuan in the pocket of the black coat in the closet, I can take it with confidence to make a test tube, don't worry about the money, I will give it if the money is not enough. You go out, eat well, take good care of your body, and don’t feel stressed.” At that moment, I burst into tears... Later, I saved all the 50,000 yuan without moving a single cent, and they have arrived at the place to enjoy the happiness. I'm getting old, and I can't let them worry about me anymore. 2. The choices made by breaking the boat bring luck to life @ Ms. Yan 38 years old full-time mothers Maybe people in big cities can't imagine what kind of public opinion and pressure they will face in rural areas without children. Pointing and cynicism is the heaviest pain we have ever suffered in our lives. Rather than talking about us, it is better to say that women have always suffered the greatest malice in the matter of childbirth. I was even threatened by my mother-in-law that she would divorce if she could not have children. Under the pressure of my mother-in-law, I almost agreed to divorce. Fortunately, my husband was always by my side. Finally, we decided to try it at Nanchang Reproductive Hospital. The examination revealed that I have severe endometriosis and ovarian function has declined. The needle for endometriosis caused me a lot of pain because the dose was three times more than that of a normal patient. But seeing hope, I am willing to suffer this hardship. But after two injections, two cysts developed in the ovary, and this medicine can no longer be used... It is like meeting an oasis in a dry desert, and finally finding out that it is just a mirage. In the end, doctors recommended surgery to remove the cyst, but it was risky and if it failed, it might not be possible to get pregnant again. This choice is both hopeless and powerless to me. After crying bitterly for two days and two nights, I decided that I would have surgery! I was ready for the worst and left the rest to the doctor. Fortunately, the doctor withstood the enormous pressure and successfully completed the operation. Later, I took 3 eggs in a test tube, and formed two embryos to be transplanted into my body. Fortunately, the last two survived! Although I was close to bankruptcy in order to have a child, at the moment when the child was born, I felt that everything was worth it. 3 The twists and turns of pregnancy ended with giving up @zhihu netizen I got married at the age of 26, and I look forward to having my own baby around the age of 30. However, things backfired and the twists and turns continued. After getting married, I started to want to have a baby, but I didn't take contraceptive measures after a year, and I didn't want to get a pregnancy test at one time. When I saw the vague two bars, the feeling of joy and excitement has left a deep memory in my memory. At that time, I never thought that the first time I conceived naturally was the last time... I wanted to go to the hospital to confirm the pregnancy, but I didn't expect to find out that the tubal pregnancy was an ectopic pregnancy. After my body recovered, I continued to try to conceive after six months of contraception according to the doctor's advice, but two years later, I found nothing. After examination, angiography, and another laparoscopic tubal pass through the fallopian tube, she tried to conceive, but there was still no result after half a year. So I started the test tube road. In the first test tube, the doctor formulated a short ovulation plan and successfully retrieved 11 eggs. Originally full of confidence, only 3 usable fertilized eggs were developed, and the last one was unsuccessful. After crying, I struggled for a long time, should I try again. Continuing to try means having to do it all over again from ovulation stimulation to egg retrieval, and all the costs have to be done again, but it is unwilling to give up. Two months later, I decided to try again, and if I haven't already, take it. In the second test tube, 13 eggs were successfully retrieved. However, this time, only 2 fertilized eggs were successfully cultivated, and in the end it failed again. I have no money, I accept my fate, I give up. 4 Successful experience sharing of test-tube baby medical insurance reimbursement @Netizen Maomao Come on, I should have caught up with the policy bonus! Although the amount is not large, it also makes me very happy. The maternity insurance purchased by the unit, after a successful delivery, in addition to the conventional maternity insurance, an additional part of the test tube can be reported. The hospital bills and invoices required for reporting routine maternity insurance can be processed together when you are discharged from the hospital. The materials required for test-tube reimbursement are: ① the medical condition certificate of the test-tube hospital ② the invoice (I was only asked to provide the invoice for two transplants) ③ the B-ultrasound sheet proving the successful pregnancy (one ultrasound, two ultrasounds, and three ultrasounds can be used) ④ proof of the successful delivery (Because I reported it together with the conventional maternity insurance, no additional proof materials are required) However, I also know some people who are unwilling to be reimbursed because they do not want others to know that they are in a test tube. Indeed, in the eyes of many people, the matter of test tube is an untouchable privacy and taboo, and the reimbursement fee may be a drop in the bucket compared with the actual cost, but it is better than nothing. As far as I know, sisters in the same province as me, as long as they have done the test tube, no matter whether they are successful or not, they can report it several times. In this way, the reimbursement costs are still very considerable. However, due to different policies in different places, the reimbursement amount will also vary. Therefore, you need to consult the local medical insurance center for how much you can report and how to report it. We all know that the test tube road is full of hardships. In addition to the physical injuries and the pressure caused by the low success rate, it is more psychological torture caused by huge economic costs. The price of one cycle of IVF in public hospitals is 30,000-40,000 yuan, and the price of private hospitals varies from 40,000-90,000 yuan according to service differences. "In the domestic market, the average cycle of IVF is 2.5 times per person to be successful, and the overall cost is more than 200,000 yuan. For ordinary families, it is still very difficult to afford." But for infertile couples, it also is the only hope. During the National Two Sessions in 2022, many representatives suggested that infertility diagnosis and treatment should be included in the scope of medical insurance, and some places are also considering including assisted reproductive technology medical services into the scope of medical insurance payment. Today, Beijing, Zhejiang, Xianning, Hubei and other places have introduced policies to reimburse part of the expenses for assisted reproductive technology families. The Zhejiang Provincial Medical Security Bureau issued a notice on 5.19 to formulate medical prices for assisted reproduction related technologies and include them in the scope of maternity insurance payments in a timely manner in accordance with relevant national regulations. Xianning City, Hubei Province also announced on the 16th that some expenses will be reimbursed for assisted reproductive technology families. Hunan Provincial Medical Insurance Bureau, Sichuan Provincial Health and Health Commission and Shandong Province also stated on their official platforms that they will follow the practice of individual provinces and cities and issue relevant management measures as soon as possible in response to national policies to reduce the burden on the masses. We believe that if IVF can be covered by medical insurance, it will bring hope to more families!
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