Mothers who have beauty, self-confidence and awareness themselves will have "high-end version" children

time:2023-02-03 11:36:33source:monlittlebaby.com author:Emergency treatment
Mothers who have beauty, self-confidence and awareness themselves will have "high-end version" children

The picture comes from the Internet. In a fast food restaurant, a bloated mother, while nibbling on Orleans chicken legs, did not forget to chatter the same fat little girl beside her: "Look at your same table, you are white She's thin and has such a good temperament. You eat and eat every day, and you're dead fat, no matter how you look at it, it doesn't look good!" The mother's voice was so loud that half of the restaurant's people couldn't help but look up at their mother and daughter two people. The little girl should be less than 10 years old. Compared with children of the same age, she is indeed slightly fatter, but if her mother is compared to her peers, she should be very fat! Therefore, I think many people will feel the same, how can I ask children for my body like this? The picture is from the Internet. I remember that when my Dabao went to kindergarten, there was a little girl in the same class. The little girl was very unwilling to let her mother pick her up after school. Because the little girl's mother is indeed a bit unrefined, she always wears pajamas and pajamas, and stands sloppy at the door of the kindergarten class, crowding the parents who are waiting in line in front, calling the little girl's name in a loud voice. Arouse everyone's attention. The teacher also reminded her slightly embarrassedly that she had to wait in line to pick up the child, but the mother shouted carelessly: "There is an urgent matter at home, there is an urgent matter!" Then, there are urgent matters every time... When the big class in kindergarten, the little girl was there When the class saw her mother standing at the door of the class, she hurried out, but her mother couldn't even pull her behind. The picture is from the Internet. If the baby is in swaddling, what he needs is a warm and soft mother, even if the figure is out of shape, even if the clothes are not neat, but as long as you hear the gentle voice, smell the breath of the mother, feel the mother's breath If the baby exists, the baby will feel very happy; then as the baby grows, they will have some longing and hope for the mother. They look forward to their mother being omnipotent. In order to protect them, they can wear armor and have a warm fleece; they can cut through thorns with a sword in their hands, and they can hold beautiful flowers in their arms... They hope that their mother is unique, in Among many mothers, they can stand out, stand out from the crowd, and make them proud and proud. This comes from the original concept of good and evil, beauty and ugliness naturally born in their inner world... Therefore, as the baby continues to grow Big, mother should also change. The picture comes from the Internet. A mother who always pays attention to her makeup, talks generously, clean and beautiful, raises a child who will never be sloppy; while a mother who does not cultivate space, has nothing to do, indulges in the shortness of parents every day, and is completely separated from the society It is difficult for a mother to raise a child with a desolate temperament... This is the subtle influence of parents on their children. Parents' education for their children is always better than words. Especially for a mother, she must work hard to be a warm and good mother, and at the same time don't forget to please herself and make herself more beautiful, better, stronger and learned, so as to become the pride of her children. The picture comes from the Internet German philosopher Jaspers published as early as 1977 in the book "What is Education". He classically proposed: Education is a tree shaking a tree, a cloud pushing a cloud, a A soul awakens another soul. So, isn't the process of parenting children a process of self-learning and self-awakening? Sometimes, when we calm down, parents will find that we are raising children, and children are changing us unknowingly. Let us gradually realize that we must first be ourselves before we can be good mothers. You know, the mother's temperament and appearance hide the child's future. The picture comes from the Internet After all, what is the best parent-child relationship? Isn't it "while achieving children, you are also achieving yourself"? What kind of person we want our children to be, we might as well let ourselves become that person first; if we want to raise good children, we might as well try to be a good self first, and then we can become a good mother. Mothers and children have always achieved each other, influenced each other, and nourished each other! Understand this truth, the parent-child relationship will be harmonious and harmonious, and the mother and child can grow together, progress together, and reach a new height of life together.
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