What is the reason for a new mother who is confinement fanning herself wildly? Some stereotypes should really be deleted

time:2023-02-03 10:42:27source:monlittlebaby.com author:Common phenomenon
What is the reason for a new mother who is confinement fanning herself wildly? Some stereotypes should really be deleted

The picture comes from the Internet. I saw a small video today, and I was very emotional. A novice mother who is confinement, sitting on the bed with a sad face, slaps herself repeatedly. The reason why she was so excited and indignant was that her confinement was unbearably planned by her mother-in-law and husband. In such a hot weather in Guangdong, Bao Ma was asked to wear thick clothes, not to turn on the air conditioner, and to stay in bed. This treasured mother was really unbearable, and could only vent her helplessness and anger by hurting herself. In the end, she should be taken back by her mother's family for confinement. The picture comes from the Internet. Seeing such information, first of all, I feel sorry for this novice mother. Confinement is inherently fragile, physically weak, and mentally helpless. The crying of the baby around me creates too much tension, and I have to face these stereotypes and bad habits given by my family. , being good to new mothers", cruelly hurts the heart and body of new mothers. There are so many things that can really make a woman who is a new mother completely collapse. This is also the reason why novice mothers in confinement are prone to depression. In fact, this mother's behavior of slapping herself repeatedly should be worthy of the family's warning. She should pay special attention to her mother, and be careful about postpartum depression. The pictures are from the Internet and the second is the helplessness of some so-called "old rules". Our ancestors, through the inheritance of experience, have indeed brought us a lot of convenience and growth, but we have to admit that there will still be some dross left over from history. It should not be perfunctory and domineering to say the last sentence "People in the past came here like this..." You must know that the present is not what it used to be, and it has long been different. Take women's "confinement" as an example, the ancients or past experience paid special attention to "confinement", because under the premise that sanitary conditions and medical conditions are not up to the premise, women giving birth to children is often "walking through the gates of hell". ” is dangerous, and traditional production often leads to excessive bleeding in women and severe physical deficits. Therefore, women who have given birth to children need extra physical care. Now, "confinement" should not be ignored. Although the medical environment and sanitary conditions have already made a qualitative leap, the inherent physical deficit of women giving birth is a physical condition that is difficult for human beings to solve or overcome. Therefore, women who have given birth still need to be cared for and taken care of. The pictures are from the Internet. However, some rules of "confinement" are indeed not suitable for today's social changes, and need to be changed and adjusted. For example, in "confinement", women have to lie in bed all day long, not to blow the wind, not to suffer from cold, and not to lack major supplements... These have long been criticized by professionals. Even women who have a caesarean section should try to get out of bed to move and walk within 48 hours after giving birth, so as to help the body recover. Women who have a natural birth should rest and adjust after giving birth, and then they can walk properly. When you leave, why do you have to lie in bed? And only through appropriate activities can women's internal organs that are "displaced" due to childbirth quickly "return" and perform their duties. The picture comes from the Internet. As for not being able to blow the wind and get cold, under the premise that the living conditions were relatively poor in the past, I was worried that women would have many sequelae due to the cold, that is, "confinement disease". This is indeed the case. It is indeed easy to produce some "confinement diseases" in the confinement period, but the production and confinement confinement are also divided into seasons. Now that the sun is scorching hot, I still have to worry about the cold of the mother. Where does the cold come from? The air is filled with the sun and the smell of heat, okay? As long as the air conditioner is not blowing directly at the mother and the newborn baby, it is only set up to adjust the temperature. What's wrong with it? Isn't modern technological progress just to bring more convenience to everyone and make our living conditions more comfortable and superior? The picture comes from the Internet and the "Dabu" thing. Compared with the past, there are really few mothers who are lacking in nutrition. On the contrary, there are more and more diseases such as high gestational sugar and obesity in the prenatal period. . And postpartum women really need "big supplements" to make up for the body's deficit? Then it depends on how to make up and what to make up for. It is very necessary to replenish blood and qi, and it is completely unnecessary to eat a lot of meals and greasy food. It does not help the absorption and digestion of postpartum mothers, but it increases fat. Just look at many new mothers doing milk content inspections, and you can see that there are too many fat content. The pictures are from the novice mothers in the Internet confinement. Their body and mind will be stimulated by hormone changes, and they are particularly sensitive and can not withstand stimulation. At this time, the baby gives her the sweetest sense of happiness, and the family is their most solid support. Please be kind to this woman who has worked hard for the reproduction of her family. Having children is definitely not something she does alone.
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