3 major misunderstandings parents have about their children in high school, making their children's grades worse and worse

time:2023-02-03 08:47:04source:monlittlebaby.com author:Baby bones
3 major misunderstandings parents have about their children in high school, making their children's grades worse and worse

After the child entered the first year of high school, have there been many unexpected learning problems? Because the holiday has been extended due to the epidemic, the children's learning has not stopped. No, all people are taking online classes. Although the process of class made teachers and parents a little bit broken, it also allowed many parents to understand the real learning situation of their children. The day before yesterday, I received a message from a parent of Gao's family: I heard before that the first year of high school is a "hurdle", and children will encounter many problems, but I didn't expect that there would be so many. The children took online classes at home during the winter vacation, and the result was a lot of problems: unable to keep up with class, unable to complete homework, staying up late every day to catch up with the schedule. It's even more difficult than the high school entrance examination. Is it so difficult for the first year of high school? From the above text, Xiao Qi can feel that the child's learning status has changed some of the parents' original views on the first year of high school. "Is the first year of high school so difficult?" If parents cannot correctly understand the first year of high school, then the first year of high school will definitely be difficult for children! Next, let’s talk about the three major misunderstandings parents have about high school learning! Don't underestimate these misunderstandings, it will really affect your child's grades! 1. When you go to high school, you will learn consciously. Many parents will encourage their children like this: You are in high school, you are a big child, you must learn consciously, and don't let us stare at it. For most students who have just entered high school, it is easy to take the first year of high school as a relief after the senior high school entrance examination and lose the requirements for themselves after experiencing the pressure of the senior high school entrance examination. In addition, the difficulty of the courses spans a large span, which makes many students unable to breathe. Slowly, slack occurs, how can we talk about consciously taking the initiative to learn? Suggestions: 1. Effective encouragement and hints to children. For example, you can tell your child: "You have already gone to high school, and you fully understand that learning is your own business. Your parents are very at ease with you, and you need to find your parents." 2. Strengthen self-discipline and set an example. Especially with the increasing development of electronic technology products, parents of "head-downers" must get rid of the habit of playing with mobile phones. 3. Find students' advantageous subjects and interests to enhance the pleasure of learning. In order for students to be motivated to learn and consciously take the initiative to learn, they must feel the sense of accomplishment after overcoming difficulties. Parents must observe the interests and advantages of students, so that they can maintain a happy and successful feeling and experience in the process of learning. 2. Problems with learning is that children do not want to learn the learning mode, volume of knowledge, and difficulty of knowledge in high school. There is a big difference between them and junior high school. This is also the reason why many children are prone to problems in learning when they first enter high school. Some parents often complain like this: "The child's grades are not going up, he's not anxious at all, I'm all anxious for him." But this is not the case. If the grades are not good, the most anxious must be the child. But sometimes because they are afraid of parental blame and other factors, they do not dare to speak to their parents and teachers, and do not dare to show it, which makes them fall into a vicious circle of worrying. So when you observe problems with your child's learning, parents can try the following methods. Suggestions: 1. Give warmth and support to the child's family. When children are helpless, they most need the understanding and help of their parents. Don't stubbornly think that you are a high school kid, learning is his own business, and he should solve problems by himself like an adult. 2. Help children recognize their own situation, guide children to take the initiative to speak out about problems in learning and homework, and help children analyze their learning situation and find their own problems. 3. Ask the teacher to "support". Teachers are the ones who know the students' learning situation best. When children can't view their own learning status correctly, and parents have no way of understanding, they must actively seek the help of teachers, and formulate learning plans or report according to teachers' feedback and students' self-will. class. 3. High school students stay up late to study. "High school students are under great study pressure, how can they not stay up late?" "Children have a lot of homework, so they stay up late to write homework every day." Parents see a lot, and they become accustomed to their children's staying up late. Is high school stressful? of course! Bad grades without staying up late? of course not! Most of the students with good grades maintain good work and rest habits. Why not stay up late and still be able to study well? It is because they can make full use of the day to complete their learning tasks, that is, they are efficient. And students who are not very efficient naturally have to catch up with their study progress during the rest time of others. Staying up late because of too much homework? Not even more! Ask your child if there are always some students in the class who finish their homework on time or even ahead of time. Therefore, rather than staying up late to catch up with others, improving learning efficiency is the most important thing. Suggestions: 1. Reduce interference with children's learning and provide students with a quiet and independent learning environment. Be careful, don't give your child food when he is concentrating on studying, it is easy to interrupt the child's learning ideas. Develop children's awareness of "the study is a place to study, not a place to eat". 2. Deliberately improve learning efficiency, ensure children's sleep, refuse to stay up late, remind and even require students to learn during the day, and the daily learning tasks must be completed, so as to improve learning efficiency almost deliberately, over time, children will not think about the daytime I put off my homework until the evening. 3. Learn more about the high school curriculum and college entrance examination-related knowledge, and improve the ability to communicate with children, so as to provide constructive opinions on children's study and life, so as not to make children think that parents are blind commands.
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