After becoming a father, what things have made you understand more about fatherhood?

time:2023-02-03 14:59:04source:monlittlebaby.com author:Fever
After becoming a father, what things have made you understand more about fatherhood?

#happy father's day# My twins have always been very active and active in learning, and the teacher often praises them, so I have always been very relieved, at least I feel that even if these two babies are not too good, they will not cause me trouble. But since entering the second half of the first grade, the self-consciousness of these two children broke out, especially Youdi, who was a very good child at school, but now the teacher has come to me twice in less than ten days. The theme of both times is that Brother You is in a very poor state of study: deserting in class, sometimes talking to the same table, and saying that he can beat the teacher... Alas, being picked up by the teacher is embarrassing, and it is super emotional. The most important thing is that I have always been the main force of education, but now I have reached the point where I have no skills and can only ask for the help of the child's father. I said, "I have full authority in the first half of the child's education, but I feel exhausted in the second half, so I can only look at you." This person, who has been educated by the Party for many years, decisively took over the burden. I thought a bloodbath was coming. Unexpectedly, this man, who was usually a little short-tempered, actually sat down calmly and had a heart-to-heart chat with the child, asked the child about the recent psychological journey, helped the child answer questions, put forward hopes and requirements, and finally formulated the rules. To be honest, I really didn't expect this person to be able to control his bad emotions and express his views logically and loudly when his child was disobedient. This makes me admire, but also makes me admire it. Later, I concluded that maybe the power of love made him learn restraint. Brothers and sisters, this normally inarticulate man has an hour-long conversation with his son (it's not easy for him to talk so much at once!). The key is that during this hour-long conversation, Brother You, who usually wants to sleep when he hears about the teaching, can actually listen carefully throughout the whole process. This shows what? Explain that his father punctuated the key points every sentence, and every word was majestic, so that the child would not be sleepy, and he would not dare to be sleepy. And after the meeting, I asked Youdi to summarize the spirit of the meeting, and he could express it accurately. This shows that the kid really listened. In the days that followed, the baby was still naughty, but was obviously a lot more obedient. How should I put it, my father's love is usually quiet, but at the critical moment, it is silent.
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