Many parents don't understand: with children at home, in fact, a lot of money could have been saved

time:2022-12-05 04:59:00source:monlittlebaby.com author:Emergency treatment
Many parents don't understand: with children at home, in fact, a lot of money could have been saved

Text | Cheats Jun "No matter how hard you are, you can't be hard on your children, and no matter how poor you are, you can't be poor in education." In the 1970s and 1980s, this slogan was painted with white paint on the wall, and it once became an unswerving concept in the hearts of the Chinese people - the education of children is a major event, and it should be placed at the top of the family. . Also because of this concept, the biggest expense in many families is the education of the children. But in fact, many parents don't understand that with children at home, a lot of money could have been saved. Because of those so-called investments in children's education, many of them are actually unnecessary, or have been lost, or are destined to be lost. Many families spend a lot of money for the education of their children without knowing that there are various interest classes in the first place. A parent once left a message in the background saying that the conditions of his home were not very good, and he had two more children, and his life was very tight. She doesn't treat the child badly when it comes to food and clothing. The only thing she feels guilty about is that because she has little money, the eldest is about to graduate from kindergarten, and she hasn't taken any interest classes yet. Seeing that other children were in dance classes and art classes, she always felt that as a parent, she was holding back her children. If only I could make more money at home! Actually, the problem is not here. The question is, do children really have to enroll in the interest classes she mentioned? Nowadays, there is a trend for parents to apply for classes. Girls must sign up for dance classes, and most boys choose taekwondo. In addition, art and piano have also become common options. My child's teacher counted the registration of extracurricular classes in the class, and each child registered at least two or more. As many as six or seven. Among the children who signed up for the class, which ones were they liked and willing to join, and begged their parents to report it? rare. Most parents feel that they "should" report it, so they report it regardless. As a result, the child lost interest in sex, and was reluctant to go on. The piano I bought at a high price was idle, and many of the remaining lessons were wasted. Interest classes that cost 10,000 yuan a year or more have become a waste of money for parents. There is also a deep-seated reason for this. Many parents enroll their children in interest classes in order to relieve anxiety. "Everyone else has attended, but my child can't. What should I do if I fall behind?" If you understand your own temperament and interest direction, you may not be so blind. Or if parents have clear educational goals and directions for their children, they will not sign up their children for classes at will, but can save a lot of money. The second is the cultural remedial class that is ahead of the school's teaching content. For interest classes, some parents are still vigilant and will not sign up at will, but their attitude towards remedial classes is different. It's the same sentence, if the whole class has made up for it outside, then they will not make up for themselves. What if the teacher talks too deeply in class and can't understand it? If you don't make up for it, you won't be able to get into a good school in the future! These remedial classes are more expensive than hobby classes. And now because of the "double reduction", some institutions have moved from the bright side to the underground, and it's hard to find them. What is even more worrying is that many remedial classes teach in depth and let children learn ahead of time. Many children are studying the content of the fourth grade in the third grade, and then finish the elementary school content in the fifth grade, and then study the content of the junior high school. The long-term and intensive arrangement of classes will make children lose a lot of free time and rely too much on tutoring institutions, and their self-learning ability will not develop. In elementary school, you can get good grades by relying on advanced learning and remedial classes. When you need to increase your self-learning ability in junior high school, there are disadvantages: children will not learn by themselves, nor do they know how to learn. To be left behind or to be left behind. In the long run, the money is wasted. I understand parents' concerns about their children's education, especially academics. But the child's future is not the moment of the college entrance examination, and the goal is not just to be admitted to a good university. Lifelong learning ability and independent thinking ability are more important. In fact, as long as parents do well in their children's reading and sports, it is almost the same. Whole-subject reading helps to develop learning ability, thereby improving academic performance; exercise can replenish energy, improve resistance to setbacks, and develop teamwork ability. enough. [Topic discussion: Are you anxious about your child's learning? 】Senior nursery teacher, psychological consultant. He understands parenting and psychology, and also pays attention to the mother's self-growth and family management, and strives to be a caring person for mothers. Welcome to [Parenting Cheats], you can find the answers here for everything you want to know about parenting care, growth and development, family education, and mental health!
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