Parents carry school bags for elementary school students

time:2022-12-02 08:14:15source:monlittlebaby.com author:Sneeze
Parents carry school bags for elementary school students

Text | Cheats Jun recently started the school season. During the closing hours of a primary school in Zhengzhou, the principal stood at the door and whispered to the parents carrying school bags one by one: Tell the children to carry their own school bags next time after school. The principal's behavior quickly became a hot search. Parents' endorsement of schoolbags for elementary school students caused heated discussions. The media also voted on Weibo. Do you think parents should endorse schoolbags for their children? 25,000 people participated, and 74% of the participants opposed the behavior, while only 19% of the participants thought it was time to help children with schoolbags. When I showed this topic and the voting results to my cousin, she said, "Those who oppose must have no children at home, or the children are not in elementary school. You think we are willing to carry them for children, but the schoolbag is too heavy, The child can't carry it. You weigh my daughter's schoolbag in the second grade of elementary school." I took the schoolbag from my little nephew: "Good guy, that's really heavy." My cousin went on to say: "My daughter goes to kindergarten and I let the child endorse the book by himself. I bought my own schoolbag before the first grade, thinking about my child carrying it by myself and being self-reliant. But my daughter is now in grade 2, and I never let her carry a schoolbag. At the time, my daughter was only 41 jin. If the schoolbag was about 5 jin, I would not help her to carry it. It was too heavy and too heavy. The child couldn’t straighten his back, and he would bend over and hunched over when he pressed down for a long time. , as a parent, the only thing that can’t bear is to help the child carry the schoolbag. My child who grew up in the countryside in the 1980s went to and from school by himself, but at that time the schoolbag only weighed one or two pounds.” After listening to my cousin’s words, I also thought The principal has the position of the principal, and the parents have the consideration of the parents. The reason why the principal has such a reminder to the parents is to cultivate the children's ability to live independently. Children's sense of ownership and self-reliance. At the same time, it also prevents parents from overly spoiling their children and helps them become better talents. Parents start from their children's physical health. Children in primary school are in a critical period of physical development, and they are all tall and stature. It's uncertain. Because classes can be adjusted at any time, all the books for the class, plus stationery and school supplies, plus the child's water cup, can easily become overweight. The child can't stand up on his own, and he will go on for a long time. It will affect the child's spine, and the child will be hunched over. Especially many small and thin children, they can't walk with a big schoolbag on their back, and they will not be longer and taller. Which parent does not want their child to have a straight waist and straight legs Therefore, we should also understand the actions of parents to carry schoolbags for their children. I don’t think parents are spoiling them, but just for the sake of children’s physical development. If they don’t want their children’s parents to help with schoolbags, schools should take measures to reduce the burden on students’ schoolbags and make schoolbags easier to use. The weight should be controlled within the range that the child can bear. At the same time, parents should also exercise the child's self-care ability, cultivate the child to do things on their own from an early age, and let them do some housework within their ability. This is more conducive to the healthy development of the child's body and mind. [topic discussion : How heavy is your child's schoolbag? Have you backed his schoolbag?] Senior babysitter, psychological consultant. Understands parenting and psychology, and also pays attention to the mother's self-growth and family management, and strives to be a caring person for mothers. Welcome to pay attention 【Parenting Cheats】, you can find the answers here for everything you want to know about parenting care, growth and development, family education, and mental health!
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