The more diligent and capable the mother is at home, the less happy the family is. The reason is very helpless

time:2022-12-05 author:Cry
The more diligent and capable the mother is at home, the less happy the family is. The reason is very helpless

Text | Cheats I always hear a lot of people, once talking about a certain woman, the expression of compliment means that this woman is hardworking and capable, a woman does this and that, it is very hard, and she supports a family. It is said inside and out that such a woman is great and worthy of admiration. To be honest, I admire this woman too. Indeed, if you want a family to be better, hard work is a must. As long as the husband and wife work hard, life will get better and better. But I never envy those women who build a family by themselves after marriage and live a life of thousands of troops. And I think that the harder and more diligent the mother at home is, the more unhappy the family is. The reason is very helpless.

The mother is too diligent, and the husband will be the boss, and the relationship between husband and wife will definitely be affected

Some mothers may be naturally diligent , I like to do everything by myself. If such a woman meets a man who understands and appreciates, her family will be very happy. But many women may be married to gain recognition, or to make the family better and better, and become very diligent and capable. But people are inherently inferior. Women do everything diligently. Many men take it for granted and think that women should do it themselves. Women work hard to take care of everything on their own, and men start to lie down with peace of mind and become a hands-off shopkeeper. It can be said that lazy men are used by women. When the mother at home is too diligent, the man's sense of family responsibility will be seriously lacking, and he will lack the thought of managing the family and marriage. And my mother spends all her thoughts and time on household chores. She is so busy all day long that she works hard, but she may not be able to exchange her husband's distress and understanding. She is only regarded by her husband as a free babysitter at home. There to be nourished and supported by love. Women will have resentment and dissatisfaction in their hearts, and a lot of negative energy will accumulate in their hearts. At the same time, because their time is occupied by family chores, they have no time to love themselves, and have no energy to think about running a relationship between husband and wife. If it goes on like this for a long time, the mother will live as a resentful woman, and the man will feel at ease as a hands-off shopkeeper. Most of the hardworking and capable mothers are not high at home. Because men are accustomed to women's efforts, they will become superior, and they will not look down on wives like nanny in their hearts. When children see that their mother is doing housework at home all day long, revolving around themselves and their father, without any self-seeking and fun, they will feel that their mother really has no status at home, and anyone can do it. A mother who can be too diligent and capable, the husband does not pay attention to it, and the child looks down upon it, the whole family will not be too happy. Of course, this is not to deny the meaning of diligence. Diligence is a very beautiful character. But marriage is not just about being diligent and capable. After becoming a mother, a woman learns to be lazy, let her husband do it, cultivate her husband's sense of family responsibility, let the child do it, cultivate the child's ability to live independently, and the family can be happy. [Topic discussion: Have you become more diligent after becoming a mother? 】Senior nursery teacher, psychological consultant. He understands parenting and psychology, and also pays attention to the mother's self-growth and family management, and strives to be a caring person for mothers. Welcome to [Parenting Cheats], you can find the answers here for everything you want to know about parenting care, growth and development, family education, and mental health!
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