After you have a baby, you cross into a poorer family, and you all lose in the following aspects. If you don't wake up the baby, you can't get rich.

time:2023-02-02 author:Emergency treatment
After you have a baby, you cross into a poorer family, and you all lose in the following aspects. If you don't wake up the baby, you can't get rich.

Text | Cheats, I have always believed that the baby came to this home with rations. So I often hear a lot of people say that after having children, everything will be fine. Most of the families around me have greatly improved their economic income after having children. Although having children costs more, the family's economic situation has improved qualitatively. There are only a small number of families, whose family conditions were good, but after having children, they soon lost and life got worse. And this part of the family has obvious characteristics. After having a baby, after crossing over to a poorer family, they are all defeated in the following aspects, and the baby will not be able to become rich without alerting the baby.

Families are not in the same heart and hold each other back

Families want to get better and better. It is very important for a family to be of one mind, and everyone performs their own duties. , do your own thing and don't hold back others. A family that lives well after having a baby by my side never relies on young people fighting alone, but a large family helping each other. For example, the in-laws understand the difficulties of young people and try their best to help them. The mother-in-law helps to take care of the baby, which can let the young people go out and work hard. The father-in-law should go to work and have his own income. Not to mention helping the young people, at least save enough money for his own retirement, and he will live a quality life in his later years. trouble for the children. Young people understand each other, earn money to support their families together, and manage housework and take care of children together. The older generation is a good rearguard for their children, and will never hold back even if they don’t have the ability to contribute money. The hearts of the family are in one place, and they are all rushing towards the goal of making the family better and better. However, some families have their own thoughts. After having a baby, the in-laws hold the idea that whoever gives birth will raise them, and turn a blind eye to the difficulties of young people. They would rather play mahjong and dance square dance every day rather than help. As a result, many young mothers only Being forced to be a housewife at home, the family lost an income. There are also some in-laws who feel that their son’s affairs are completed after they get married. They are less than 50 years old. They are waiting for their sons to support them. They just want to eat, drink and have fun. . As a result, young people not only have to support children, but also parents who are still very young. They have no savings in their hands and live a tight life. When I really get old and frail and need to retire, I have no savings in my hands, and my children have done their best to take care of their own children, and they have no time to take care of their parents at all. At that time, life in old age can be imagined. The most important thing is the husband and wife. They don't understand each other. Men can't understand and help their wives with children at home. They only think that their wives are happy at home. It is also difficult for women to understand the pressure of a man to earn money to support his family, and complain and accuse him a lot. There are all kinds of quarrels and cold wars at home all day long, and the atmosphere is tense and depressing. Such a family atmosphere is a great drain on people and will affect people's fortunes. Therefore, it is possible that the careers of the two have been frustrated repeatedly and everything is not going well. Children are not well nurtured and educated in such a family environment. If the husband and wife are not compatible, the older generation will not help. Although everyone is a family, but they all have the mentality that they are afraid that others will take advantage of each other. In a family environment, it is impossible to become rich. Unity is strength at any time, and if you work hard in one place, you will be able to go anywhere. [Topic discussion: Has your family’s economic situation improved after having a baby? 】Senior nursery teacher, psychological consultant. He understands parenting and psychology, and also pays attention to the mother's self-growth and family management, and strives to be a caring person for mothers. Welcome to [Parenting Cheats], you can find the answers here for everything you want to know about parenting care, growth and development, family education, and mental health!
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